BEING AND BECOMING COUNSELLING AND WELLNESS SERVICES

Couples Counselling

Compassionate support and guidance to help improve or repair your connection with your partner.

Couples Counselling can help you:

REBUILD TRUST

IMPROVE COMMUNICATION

INCREASE INTIMACY

Every relationship is unique.

Whether you are longing for greater connection and closeness in your relationship, wanting to change unhealthy relationship dynamics, or are reeling from a difficult event like loss or infidelity, couples counselling can help.

We provide a safe, non-judgmental space where you can gain the tools to deepen, repair, or strengthen your relationship.

If you and your partner are struggling with:

  • Frequent arguments

  • Poor communication

  • Infidelity, betrayal or loss of trust

  • Emotional disconnection

  • Feelings of loneliness

  • Feeling stuck or unhappy

  • Intimacy issues

  • Fertility challenges

  • Parenting disagreements

  • Navigating non-traditional relationship structures

Couples counselling can help you and your partner improve communication, work through challenges, and deepen your relationship.

What You Can Expect to Get Out of Couples Counselling

Just as each couple is unique, each couple’s experience in therapy will differ, but in time you may notice positive changes in your relationship such as:

  • You are better able to communicate your feelings and needs, and hear your partner’s attempts to communicate their feelings and needs

  • Your emotional connection is deeper

  • You are able to solve conflict more quickly and effectively

  • You have a greater understanding of your own emotional needs, as well as those of your partner

  • You feel more secure in your relationship

  • You experience decreased stress and anxiety overall

  • You enjoy spending time with your partner

  • You have greater confidence in your ability to handle whatever life throws your way as a couple

  • You are enjoying greater physical intimacy

Our Approach

How We Help

1.

We Listen To You

We listen, ask questions and provide space. Our goal is to understand the unique challenges that you and your partner are experiencing in your relationship.

2.

We Create A Safe Space

We create a non-judgmental and safe container in which you and your partner can begin to open up and share your hurts, needs, wishes, or desires. Together we will work with you to learn to communicate more effectively.

3.

We Help You Move Forward

We facilitate difficult conversations that can promote healing, and offer guidance and resources to help you make changes that are meaningful to you and your partner.

Therapists Offering Couples Counselling

  • Amina Virgolici

    Registered Clinical Counsellor

“Trust is built in very small moments, which I call 'sliding door' moments. In any interaction, there is a possibility of connecting with your partner or turning away from your partner. One such moment is not important, but if you're always choosing to turn away, then trust erodes in a relationship- very gradually, very slowly.”

— John Gottman

We offer in-person counselling in Burnaby, BC, as well as online and phone counselling across British Columbia.

Begin Your Journey with Being and Becoming

Ways to Get Started…

1. Request an Appointment

If you are ready to book an appointment please give us a call or reach out to us using the contact form below.

2. Book A Free Consultation Online

You can book a free phone consultation online using our secure booking portal. Consultations are optional but provide an opportunity to assess whether a therapist feels like a good fit for you and answer any questions you may have.

3. Reach out and ask Questions

We are available to answer your questions. You can contact us using one of the methods below:

Call us
(778) 658-0582

Submit an inquiry using the contact form